There are two kinds of negativities
Negativity of arrogance
that breeds anger and hate
and negativity from frustration
and helplessness
which brings guilt and regret
One as bad as the other
How to overcome them both
I can identify with the frustration and helplessness one better. Right now I am going through one major negative phase due to that. I feel like I do not have much control over the way things should be and it is not because I am not willing to do what it takes but due to other things. Either I am chicken to face them and sort it out or I float from day to day..... Gawd what am I rambling about..
Hmmm... I feel I've known both, and often fall prey to both kinds! The only way out, I've so far found, is to plod, rack brains, resist temptation and scheme up some positive way of dealing with things ... Tough though.
if only each of us can hold a mirror and see our own arrogance... we might address it and change... and if we could easily talk about the frustrations and helplessness we might face the guilt and regret... request the universe to send me my mirror and speech space cheers to positive schemes
Hmmm, my coping mechanism from my frustration and helplessness might come across as arrogance to the other person and vice a versa. This is a very tricky issue of trust ultimately. Finding ways that work is tough definitely.. Mirrors can lead to never ending loops of justifications and ripples of hurt and what not if not done holding the other person in the process.
... hmm... trust is important... I feel rather than others holding the mirror when the universal force shows us our mirrors, internal processes happen that can bring so much positive energies
for me, the first kind is less commonly found and easier dealt with. negativity of arrogance in myself, if discovered, will make me deeply uncomfortable, enough to take steps to prevent it. in others, if i find it to such an extent that it blinds them towards others, then i don't find it too hard to dissociate myself from that person. the other kind of negativity is more complicated and my reactions to it accordingly complex.
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I can identify with the frustration and helplessness one better. Right now I am going through one major negative phase due to that. I feel like I do not have much control over the way things should be and it is not because I am not willing to do what it takes but due to other things. Either I am chicken to face them and sort it out or I float from day to day..... Gawd what am I rambling about..
Hmmm... I feel I've known both, and often fall prey to both kinds! The only way out, I've so far found, is to plod, rack brains, resist temptation and scheme up some positive way of dealing with things ... Tough though.
if only each of us can hold a mirror and see our own arrogance... we might address it and change... and if we could easily talk about the frustrations and helplessness we might face the guilt and regret...
request the universe to send me my mirror and speech space
cheers to positive schemes
Hmmm, my coping mechanism from my frustration and helplessness might come across as arrogance to the other person and vice a versa. This is a very tricky issue of trust ultimately. Finding ways that work is tough definitely.. Mirrors can lead to never ending loops of justifications and ripples of hurt and what not if not done holding the other person in the process.
... hmm... trust is important... I feel rather than others holding the mirror when the universal force shows us our mirrors, internal processes happen that can bring so much positive energies
for me, the first kind is less commonly found and easier dealt with. negativity of arrogance in myself, if discovered, will make me deeply uncomfortable, enough to take steps to prevent it. in others, if i find it to such an extent that it blinds them towards others, then i don't find it too hard to dissociate myself from that person. the other kind of negativity is more complicated and my reactions to it accordingly complex.
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