Two things I realised I do that I don't like anymore
Confront and get defensive.
Say them together like that, and I see how ironic it is that while I used to think that confronting is a good thing, I myself am not able to handle it gracefully when confronted!
So it is, that I'm trying to work on both. With the getting defensive bit, some progress I seem to be making. The confrontations ... sigh... you'll know it when I'm truly able to smile and pause, rethink and stay happy.
So for all ye who have put up with the confrontational and defensive me - thankee kindly. And hope the future confrontations are pleasant and defensiveness no more.
Confront and get defensive.
Say them together like that, and I see how ironic it is that while I used to think that confronting is a good thing, I myself am not able to handle it gracefully when confronted!
So it is, that I'm trying to work on both. With the getting defensive bit, some progress I seem to be making. The confrontations ... sigh... you'll know it when I'm truly able to smile and pause, rethink and stay happy.
So for all ye who have put up with the confrontational and defensive me - thankee kindly. And hope the future confrontations are pleasant and defensiveness no more.
5 comments:
:-D you are a living, conscious and aware human being. That is the fun of being with you lovely girl. Mwah
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sometimes it is good for the other person who knows you love them anyway...
I am sure there are many occasions when you have paused and smiled at me! Thanks :P
But I do enjoy all the confrontations. :)
If there was a Like button for comments on the blog, Rajes, I would have hit it after reading yours. Thankee :)
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